
It’s 9AM the day after a busy and productive weekend and I’m on my 3rd
load of wash, I’ve taken my daughter to summer school, taken out the
trash, battled with the print scanner, shopped for pens (the kids are
home and they walk off with them), driven across town to pick up a
scanner, and for the first time ever saw part of an episode of Jon &
Kate + 8!
I’ve been fascinated by the idea of Jon & Kate + 8, but aside from
seeing a cool billboard for their show when I was in NYC, never paid
too much attention. With 5 kids of my own at home and 2 bonus kids in
their own homes, the idea of hyperventilating over someone else’s 8
kids wasn’t exactly what I was looking for.
But since the media started a frenzy over their lives and everyone,
even us moms, have things to say about this, I’ll take my turn.
What is the point of the big Hollywood production! The kids are the
only ones acting real and they spent the whole show trying to make
them act like they wanted them to act. I got to see the whole
craziness & zaniness of a multiple photo shoot of all 10 of them.
They shot photos for a magazine cover and to accompany the story about
the family in the magazine.
We saw a very boring interview with Jon & Kate narrating the day and
complaining about how hard it was! Surrounded by an entourage of
every possible category of worker to keep them happy and make things
easy...nobody was happy. The unhappy couple smiled for the cameras,
but looked perturbed for everything else. Don’t know about you, but
if my family had this much help and attention, we would be smiling and
laughing about it all for months!
Everyone was immaculately dressed with different outfits for different
photos. And someone was actually thinking about how to set them all
up properly for the photo of a lifetime. Not the two rows our
families would do! Based on what I saw, I’m pretty sure that the kids
were dressed by experts other than their mom who was probably being
primped and decorated by her own handler!
Neither parent seemed too interested in the kids...or each other for
that matter. Okay, tell me the point of this show that is supposed to
reflect the real life of real people with 8 kids, when nothing they
stage is real life? You could put actors in these roles and get the
same thing. I found it more interesting to watch the entourage behind
the scenes setting up everything that was going on.
Maybe real life is too really boring for us to watch. But after
seeing this show, I just felt like the point was pointless. And I
came out empty handed and empty headed, feeling sorry for the loss of
a family, the loss of a childhood for those kids, and the wealth and
perfection that carries it’s own ho-hum brand of boredom.
Wherever they’re going with their lives and family, whoever’s doing
what to who, who’s the good guy, who’s the bad guy...you gotta go back
to the beginning, back to your dream and your values and yourself and
back to the basics of life...to have a life. Good luck with that!
And now, on to load 4 (of laundry) of course!
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