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Credentials

Sunday, 10 January 2010 00:00 Sharon
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I learned something today! Whack!

And it should have been so obvious. Uh-huh an ah-ha moment!

Chatting with a friend after church today and another friend comes up. We have a quick conversation about whether we are still Packer fans. Then as she’s leaving she says, “Hey I need to talk to you and get your credentials. You wrote a quote for somebody and I need your credentials.”

“And I know you have a long list,” she adds. I look helplessly over at my other friend who’s smiling and nodding.

And I’ve been telling everybody I talk to about Mom Time TV that I’m “a mom”. And they look at me like “SO WHAT!!!?!”

credsWell a lot of moms know that’s a pretty hefty qualification for just about anything. But I don’t know a single mom who will give herself credit for what she does and what’s expected of her each day. I don’t think moms get any credit in the world outside the home!

Forget that it’s a 24/7 job, and covers all subject matter available. We are specialists in everything from doctoring to teaching & preaching to organizing to counseling to budgeting to fixing to finding to positioning and building and directing and structuring, not to mention cooking and cleaning and driving and volunteering (for things that are needed and not necessarily our forte) and packing and diagnosing not only our kids symptoms, but the pets too, hitting every birthday on time & with the right gift, shopping and having every possible supply not only in stock but available on a moment’s notice. We have to be able to handle & motivate all the different personalities in our household, we have to look good & smell good even after the baby has thrown up all over us. We’re on time and accountable to everybody’s schedule and the schedule is never the same! Ok you get the jist, this is only the beginning. I could go on!

So why is it that in doing all this, the world looks at a mom as insignificant, as somebody who has given up (stupidly) an opportunity to WORK (for pay). And because she’s done that, she’s not too with it! She probably has very little talent or skill. And heaven forbid, if she’s out of the workplace too long, she won’t qualify for anything.

And why is it that when we’re moms and we know what we’re capable of, that we believe “the world”, that we believe “we are just moms?” How crazy is that?

Oh, and my credentials all took place before I had kids. And it includes an awful lot of very busy years in the TV business working of course in the one & only position that deals with every aspect of station business (training for motherhood I think).

In Malcolm Gladwell’s book, “Outliers” he talks about the 10,000 hours to success. Those who’ve put in the 10,000 hours are then in the position to have success, that is if opportunity knocks, they are able to achieve. So yes, I put my 10,000 hours of training in on the television, marketing, production side of life. And yes I put my 10,000 hours of training into my job as “mom”.

You want credentials?!!!

Bring it!

 

 

 

  • Rita Puckett  - Credentials
    Unfortunately, the undercurrent of our societal no rms invalidates "stay-at-
    home" moms in muc h the same way that pay scales bottom out for teac hers an
    d social workers, when all of the above hav e more influence on molding "cha
    racter that co unts" than well-paid professors, CEOs, movie s tars and billi
    onaires. Our power lies in not belie ving the "lie" that we are wasting
    our edu cation or influence if we choose to be stay-at-hom e moms.
  • Rita Puckett  - Credentials
    Unfortunately, the undercurrent of our societal no rms invalidates "stay-at-
    home" moms in muc h the same way that pay scales bottom out for teac hers an
    d social workers, when all of the above hav e more influence on molding "cha
    racter that co unts" than well-paid professors, CEOs, movie s tars and billi
    onaires. Our power lies in not belie ving the "lie" that we are wasting
    our edu cation or influence if we choose to be stay-at-hom e moms.
  • Karen Nowicki  - Credentials
    Here's the real test. You write your credentials u p and include your skill
    s and talent as a mom. Not ice how youfeel about it. Are you squirming in your chair  wishing you had done it
    differently? Do you worry  about what everyone else is going to think abou
    t  you and your path? I agree that our society contin ues suggest that
    the stay-at-home mom has wasted h er brain cells on changing diapers and v
    olunteerin g in the classroom. However, if you listen to many  of thos
    e moms talk about themselves, they are the  very one's perpetuating the ste
    reo type. Right no w there is lasting change brewing. Working moms, s 
    tay-at-home moms, and in-between moms are beginnin g to rock the internet t
    hrough blogs and businesse s. MomTimeTV is a perfect example of this shift.
    E veryday moms leading the way and many of which are  happily choosin
    g to stay-a...
  • Susan A  - Credentials
    As a mom, I've just gotten to a point in my life w here I realize somethings in
    this world are underv alued and usually those are the most precious. It 's the
    irony of life! So it is no surprise that th e most important job in the world, b
    eing a mom, is an undervalued career choice. I love MomTimeTV i n that it give
    s due credit and attention to the ca reer I have chosen!
  • Tara C
    I am one of those Stay-at-home moms that is feelin g undervalued. I gave up my
    career to care for my kids. Then my husband walked out and the courts said th
    at I had equal education, so I deserved no spousal support. Now I am strugglin
    g to rebuild m y working life and still be there to handle the su pport that my
    aching children need. I frequently assess whether I would go back and change m
    y life, had I known how it would end, and I honestly thin k there isn't money e
    nough for the time I had with my kids. There is no better job, however under p
    aid and under appreciated. There is always time t o work, but the kids are onl
    y teachable for...I wa s gonna say 18 years, but I am not sure they liste n once
    they are teens.
  • Sharon
    Isn't that the truth Tara! That time with the kid s goes by so fast. I did wor
    k some of that time, but I'm glad we made the decision to have me with them fu
    ll time. I think it also helps the dad to know the stories of what they're say
    ing and doing during the day. It's not always easy, but you're right, it's so
    worth it.
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