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Watching TV

Wednesday, 17 March 2010 00:00 Sharon
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tvWhat’s up with people?  Why do so many insist that watching a little TV is going to ruin their kids?  I don’t understand that and so far no one has even presented a reasonable argument against it.  

I mean all I really hear from people is that they limit the TV viewing their children have or they use TV viewing as a reward if all their tasks are done or they don’t have a TV or certainly NOT a TV in every room.  I don’t know why they think this is a good thing.  Do they think that they and their child will be in front of the TV every second of every day?

That might be bad.  Too much of a good thing probably does make it a bad thing.  Probably too much lettuce is not good either!

And yes, I did spend many years in the TV industry, specifically in TV promotion.  I guess you could say my job was to get people to watch more TV.  That’s not what I’m writing about though.  I don’t care if you watch or not.  What I like about TV has to do about story, creativity, production, information and life.

I love to read.  Why?  Because I love the story, the way words are put together, the way emotion is evoked.  It’s the same with TV...every show has a story, sports have a story.  Video has always been accused of taking the imagination out of the book.  Somebody else chooses the outfits for the characters, the setting, the angles, the characters characteristics.  Uh-huh.  But every time I go back to the book, I still picture it back in the setting of my mind, not what the movie has shown.

I think TV offers opportunity for children to learn creativity, emotion and the way things work in life.  It gives them ideas and dreams and direction.  It took all of those things to get the program on TV.  Certainly we can glean those out and learn.

People complain that when the kids are in front of the TV, the moms aren’t interacting with them enough.  What I love about TV is that so often it brings our family together.  Now most of our kids are at the age where they enjoy watching American Idol.  We look forward to it and gather together with our dinner plates and critique and cheer the performances.  It’s a chance to discuss everything from lifestyles to talent to dreams in life to tattoos, hair styles, clothing choices, and how people treat other people.  The conversations are spontaneous, but our kids learn a lot from us just sitting with us.  And because it’s fun, everybody wants to be there.

The same things happen with sports programming.  It draws us together on a Sunday afternoon.  It’s fun, it’s a party, it’s togetherness.

Do you use your TV to your advantage?  Do you really think it’s a bad thing?  Or do you just tell people you do because it seems like the right thing?
  • Sangita  - TV - Good, Bad or Both?
    I think like any electronic device, TV can be a go od or bad thing. I agree wit
    h Sharon, that if use d correctly, TV can bring a family together. It c an even
    be used as a babysitter when you just have to get something done and the kids
    need to be occ upied. However, after raising two kids and then h aving a third,
    I realized that with some planning and patience, a child can keep themselves o
    ccupied without TV. My husband and I achieved that with our youngest, and the
    result was a very calm and c reative child. So, TV is only bad when you make t
    he bad thing in your life.....
  • Priscilla  - Confession
    I'll have to confess, I've had to use TV several t imes to keep my little guy oc
    cupied while I get a few things done around the house. I also work from home o
    nce in a while, so that's when it comes mos t in handy. He's 2, so he does do a
    lot of playing on his own, but that only lasts for so long. Even tually he want
    s company, input, attention.

    Other times I've just run out of ideas on what to
    do. I watch the kids from 6 AM til 10 PM...what do you d o with all that time?
    When I need a break, I don't mind sitting with my young-ins to watch something
    entertaining. PBS actually has great shows that i ncorporate learning, and I t
    ry to comment on what my son is watching through out, as a way of reiter ating
    what he just watched, or learned.

    I'd pref er that he didn't sit in front of t
    he TV all day, because I do believe he needs exercise, fresh air, time for ima
    ginative, creative play, reading, etc . But I defin...
  • Sharon
    I've always found that my kids just naturally find something new to do when the
    y get too bored with TV or xbox or whatever it is they get attached to. I don
    't know if I'm lucky like that. But my kid s will watch a little TV and then mo
    ve on. I've n ever restricted them and they've never become depe ndent on it.
    And they are very creative at play.
  • Charline
    Like Sharon, my kids move on when they've had enou gh. The one thing I decided,
    though, is to not ha ve cable TV; only DVDs. I get to control what the y watch
    , and they don't get the commercials. My 3 sons are top of their classes, well-
    adjusted, soci al kids who love to play outside, love to draw, pl ay music, and
    occasionally watch TV. They have a mom who's calm () and happy, and feels on
    top of things every so often! As a work-at-home mom wit h loonnnggg hours in
    a day, I'd go nuts if I could n't turn it on every so often and occupy the kids
    for a 20-minute episode break.
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